friendship. hate. love. and everything else in between.
Question: What does it take for me to actually hate a person?
I think this is something I need to discuss for closure’s sake.
First of all, I don’t go hating a person randomly, or just because I feel like it. I don’t snap a finger and tell you, “That’s it, I hate you now.”
And second, of my 21 years existence, I don’t remember actually hating anybody in that sense.
Hate – for me, is a deep human emotion. It is the end result of constant pain, disappointment and the like. Here’s the catch - I may get really, really mad at you for something that deeply affected me, but that doesn’t mean I hate you entirely.
I hope I got it all laid out – I DON’T HATE ANYBODY. AT ALL.
Believe it or not.
So I think, the better question here is : What does it take for me to get really pissed off?
It’s when you know you’re doing the wrong thing and still you make yourself appear like you’re the most sacred person ever to set foot on earth. Admit your damn mistakes, it will not just lessen your burden, it will make it easier for others to forgive you, too.
Say you’re sorry and make us feel that you really are.
If I make mistakes – I apologize. I don’t care how silly I will look like, but the thing is, I apologize. I hope that you do the same thing.
I don’t have anything else to say on this matter. I hope this settles all uncalled-for questions being thrown to me for these past weeks.
Friendship means a lot to me - but friendship without trust, respect and understanding is something else. Maybe we should think twice about what happened and really focus on how to get things straigthened out. It’s for the best, for all of us.
Let’s stop pointing fingers, please.
